COMMUNICATION BETWEEN A HUSBAND AND WIFE

COMMUNICATION BETWEEN A HUSBAND AND WIFE

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In the household, communication is important. This is not just theory, I have directly felt the importance of communication between husband and wife.

My husband and I, together have a daily work routine. So, when one day it does not have communication, it bothering me

One day, I go to the office without a farewell to the husband because he is leaving first. I rush into a motorcycle, but in fact, in the middle of the road, I realize that my motorcycle rearview mirror changed form, does not like the original. This change does not make me comfortable. I complained in the heart. Why my husband the rearview mirror? It’s too small. What bothered me.

Home work, I confirm to the husband. Know why? In fact when used by a husband, he got accident, my husband to buy spy-derived origin for a while.

I was relieved. Deliberately change informer without confirmation!

You know, Just a day just no “discussion”, one can understand!

In fact, my husband and have the routine “discussion”, usually to the office before the morning, while drinking coffee or breakfast, after work that fit together in the home, maghrib and night out. That’s when the situation is normal. If there are events that can not be delayed, we can be equally busy, and no meet with each event. Sometimes I go home, my husband has to go because there are more outdoor activities. Or rather, my husband at home, I more overtime in the office. That is, imagine if there is no good communication, can be frustrating.

Topics of discussion so that we change, not always about family, sometimes also the political, cultural, community or artist. Events this discussion, I feel really helped me feel comfortable and make us feel closer to one another. However, my husband and I are two different people who have jobs and the environment alone. Because the same perceptions about the direction and purpose of marriage, and a strong commitment to always appreciate and respect one another, which makes us united and compact.

I will lose something in a day when we lose the discussion, when circumstances force us to immediately rushing out of the house and the night was exhaustion and sleep.

I believe, love is not enough gum in the marital relationship. Family harmony is more complex than just love and sex, love and sex but also a very important. So, how? Yes, they all do.

The plan, from now on, our discussion this session I will share the lessons learned and wisdom for all. This discussion I will write in the morning chat.

Therefore, the warm greeting. May God keep and protect our families. Amien.